Dear D: I am dating a 27-year-old man with a 6 year-old son. I am only 19. I think he is wonderful, and I love his son. However, his son’s mother is always butting into our business and interfering in our relationship. She is constantly trying to start arguments and fusses about me being around her son. It’s starting to become really difficult for me. My mom thinks I should just end the relationship, but I really care for him … what should I do?- Fed up
Dear Fed Up,FED UP IS RIGHT!! Enough is enough girl; grab your bags and don’t look back. I know you may love and care for this man and his son, but you are entirely too young to be caught up in this type of mess. Get out and enjoy life…I assure you, there will be many others!
Dear D: I started dating this girl that I really liked, but I have a dilemma – she has a boyfriend. He and I work together, and we get along really well. She asked me if would I go out with her, and I said that I would. I asked her about her relationship with her boyfriend. She said it was on again off again, and she didn’t know where it was going. I am confused about what she wants from me. I don’t know whether she is serious. What should I do?-Not really mine
Not Really Mine,Don’t you see what’s goin on?? This gurl wants to have her cake and eat it, too. She likes you, but she has a boyfriend, so she is after the Best of Both Worlds. This is not fair to you, and if she really liked you, she would break it off with the boyfriend. Don’t give her the satisfaction…Send her skippin like a ’86 Eight-Track!