Q. The New Year is here, and many people have made resolutions. What do you think are the best New Year’s Resolutions?
A. I think New Year’s Resolutions are personal goals people set for themselves. Resolutions for the New Year may be things that people want to improve on from previous years, or something that they desire to do. Some resolutions that I have heard are: make better grades, attend church more, exercise, save money, find a job, pay off debt, and stop drinking and/or smoking. In my opinion, the only “good” New Year’s resolution is one that best fits you and your personal goals.
Q. Spring graduation is approaching, and I don’t know what I want to do yet. I cannot decide whether I want to go into the career world or pursue a master’s degree. I heard the pros and cons of both areas. What’s your input?
A. I am battling with the same decisions, but I am leaning more toward graduate school for my own personal reasons. You have to decide what is best for you. Do you think you are prepared enough to enter corporate America? Most jobs want to know how much experience you have in your field. How many internships, co-ops and volunteer work have you done to prepare you for a job? If you possess a fair amount of experience, you may find success in entry-level positions. If you desire higher education and want to teach, a master’s degree is always a plus. For more advice, I strongly encourage you to speak with an academic adviser or visit Career Services.
Q. My roommate and I started off last semester on a positive note, but ever since we have come back from break she has been distant from me. She hardly speaks, she is never in the room anymore, and when she does talk, it’s always short answers. I do not know what the problem is, but I cannot stand being in a room with someone without communicating. What should I do?
A. As I always say, communication is the key. You have talked about all things your roommate is and is not doing; but have you asked her why? You can never know what is going on in a person’s mind, but you can always ask. Asking her what is going on with her will bring about clarity or closure to the whole situation. Maybe she is facing some challenges in her life such as school, work or family. These problems may have nothing to do with you; maybe she just needs time to open back up to you. If you were really friends in the beginning, then you will still remain friends.